For the last few years, I'd let my mind wander to where I am right now with no children at home. I imagined great angst, maybe even a break down of sorts. But here I am and all I feel is overwhelming pride in my fine young adults! And, dare I say, I am actually enjoying the first week of our empty nest!
Food bills were getting out of hand the last 5 months with 5 mouths to feed. Now it is just us two! I can cook what I want and no one complains. I open the pantry and it looks bare compared to when all of us were home. The freezer is also able to circulate air. I only buy what foods Jeff and I like.
The house is tidy unless we make a mess!
Laundry is done in a snap. I can start a load at 6 AM if I want.
Dishwasher runs once a day, not on the hour.
We can change our minds about going here or there and not have to check with anyone but ourselves.
No one is up late chatting or playing guitar in the loft outside our bedroom.
These are only a few of the things I have noticed. Of course, I miss them. I hate not being a part of their daily lives. I am just happy that I am going to be OK and I look forward to having them back at Thanksgiving.
I'm so happy for you! I pray you and your husband find new and exciting things to do with your free days. :)
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